So the one thing I have to remind myself over and over about is that success does not happen over night. Not even for authors with big name publishers. There's a lot of work, networking, marketing, a lot of everything that goes into success. The problem I'm seeing around social networking are authors who insist that they are entitled to success. They want it over night, they deserve it over night, because they are so much better than the thousands indie authors struggling out there. Sure there are authors who can drop hundreds of dollars on ads, hiring a marketing person, and using every possible resource to their advantage, but let's face it. Not all of us have that kind of money.
What we need to remember is to have patience. I'm not saying don't do any marketing, because that's not going to help the matter. But be smart about it. Explore your avenue, be open to trying new things. I've talked to several authors who have been indie authors for three years and they are doing great. It helps that they have a great product. Do your research, for example, did you know there is an algorithm on amazon that you can use to your advantage? You get the best change of being seen if you publish something every thirty days, your chances are lowered if you post something every sixty days, and after ninety days you drop out of their algorithm and start all over again. Am I suggesting you write crap and threw it up just to take advantage of this? No, no I'm not, because there is enough crap out there already, but start planning on it. Try to get a head of your writing and soon you'll be able to starting putting things up, short stories, novels, novellas, co-written books.
Sit down and write a five year plan, but be reasonable. Put down things that you know will be a challenge, but will be attainable. Set short term and long term goals and deadlines. Stick to them. Don't be afraid of making friends with strangers, network with authors inside and outside your genre. Talk to people and share what you know. Yes writing is a solitary career, but marketing is not done alone. Be personable, don't air your woes and marketing troubles on Facebook. Don't threaten to quit just to get a rise out of fans so that they'll stroke your ego. And most of all...don't give up.
I've come a long way in a year, with both names that I write under, but I know I still have a long way to go. Some days the road seems dark, but then I remind myself. Success doesn't happen over night and it doesn't come without work. We are not entitled to anything.
Wednesday, January 15, 2014
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
2014- The Road Ahead
Last time I posted it was my year in review, so this time I
thought I'd lay out the year ahead of me. My personal goals aside, I have quite
a few professional goals I'd like to make happen this year. Most importantly
will be writing more books. I'd like to have 3 releases under my belt this
year, not counting the book I'm contracted for. I'd also like to submit at
least one more thing to my publisher, but since this is about self-publishing
let's just stick to that.
I'm currently working on a co-writing project with
Alexandra. Hoping for that to be released some time in Spring, but for my solo
projects I am working on Waking Up In Chains (book two in my Arcadian Veil
series) which is paranormal romance, Mirage which is a paranormal erotic
romance, and Steamworks- a steampunk BDSM novel.
Steampunk BDSM, you ask? It's a genre that has some very
stiff cons but I think and hope I can do it right and put a new spin on some
familiar tropes. First risk is that most people think that BDSM books are all
about weak females (which it's not) and that steampunk is a genre about
empowered females (which is very true). I happen to view both of these genres
as having strong females (when written correctly and not having the female act
like a wet noodle) and I think that my story fits the way I view things. It
shows that there can be strength in submission and women who submit aren't
always treated like children by their Doms. And that a good spanking with
handcuffs can be fun. The other risk with writing in this genre is being
compared to other authors. It seems that the BDSM genre really suffers from
this type of stereotyping more so than any other genre. If I were to say to
someone "I write science fiction." Most people would not respond with
"Oh are you trying to be the next Orson Scott Card?" But if I say to
people "I write Erotica." Or "I write BDSM." The first
thing out of 95% of people is something snarky like "Oh are you trying to
be the next EL James?" or "So you write that 50 Shades of Grey
stuff?"
I don’t want to be compared to anyone else, I want to be my
own person without having the cloud of everyone else thinking I'm trying to
stick the same stuck pig to bleed out some money. It's about telling a story,
one I want to read, one that is in my heart and my head, one that these voices
tell me constantly and it is just my job to type it all out and hope one or two
people read it and say "Wow, I really enjoyed that."
Bottom line is this: In 2009 I found my bliss again,
writing. It's something that everyone in my day-to-day life told me I was never
good enough for and that I could never do it. In 2010 I started to believe that
I could write but only as a hobby. By 2011-12 I knew I wanted writing to be my
career, but I still wasn't sure if I had what it would take. I listened to
others tell me I was "okay at writing" but that I'd never be
"one of the greats" I'd never be "elite" (whatever that
means). But luckily I had some great ladies who told me the opposite, who said
"You can do this. You are talented." 2013 was an up and down year but
in the end I stood up and put myself out there and it paid off and now I have
the belief I needed in myself. 2014 is my time to make it happen, learn, fall down, pick
myself back up, and keep going.
But the one thing I couldn't do it all without is my friends
and my kids. They are my much needed support system, they help me, encourage
me, and stand by me. Which is a damn good feeling.
This year will be nothing but hard work, drive, and positive
thinking.
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
Alexandra's Year in Review
2013 surprised the hell out of me. There was more than I expected in one year. It's been a wild ride and I couldn't have thought of anyone better to share it with than Mia.
-SPE is still hopping. What started out as a whim has taken off. I hope to better it in the coming year with more reviews and author interviews.
-I survived not one, but two rounds of the Fairytale blog. Mia did a wonderful job putting that blog together and keeping it afloat.
-I have landed two contracts with Ellora's Cave, one which has caused us to switch focus a bit on this blog.
-Alexandra has taken off more than I expected.
-We are half way through with our first co-written book in a new series.
What I've learned
-Drama is everywhere, just do your best to avoid it.
-More can be accomplished in numbers
-Being two people can get crazy and sometimes it feels like I'm being ripped apart.
-Marketing, Marketing, Marketing
-Everyone has their bitchy days, and some times we all need and ego boost.
And that's my year in review! Thanks for sticking with us guys! Happy New Year and I wish you the best in 2014!
-SPE is still hopping. What started out as a whim has taken off. I hope to better it in the coming year with more reviews and author interviews.
-I survived not one, but two rounds of the Fairytale blog. Mia did a wonderful job putting that blog together and keeping it afloat.
-I have landed two contracts with Ellora's Cave, one which has caused us to switch focus a bit on this blog.
-Alexandra has taken off more than I expected.
-We are half way through with our first co-written book in a new series.
What I've learned
-Drama is everywhere, just do your best to avoid it.
-More can be accomplished in numbers
-Being two people can get crazy and sometimes it feels like I'm being ripped apart.
-Marketing, Marketing, Marketing
-Everyone has their bitchy days, and some times we all need and ego boost.
And that's my year in review! Thanks for sticking with us guys! Happy New Year and I wish you the best in 2014!
Friday, December 27, 2013
Mia's Year In Review
2013… Oh how you fickle and frustrating you've been. Now
that we are facing 2014 I thought I'd do some reflections, because as stressful
at 2013 was it was also equally exciting. So let's get down to the milestones
of this past year for me:
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The SPE blog has been a success as an outlet for me on
my self-publishing journey.
-
The Twisted Tales blog turned out better than I had
imagined.
-
I signed a publishing contract with Ellora's Cave
(which was completely unexpected)
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I self-published my first book: Waking Up In Bedlam
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I have managed to keep my author page free of any
drama, which keeps my brand professional.
-
NaNo wasn't a complete loss. It helped me get a good
start on Waking Up In Chains.
-
I submitted a short story for an Anthology. The
deadline was Dec. 31st, I got it in Dec. 26th. I feel
very accomplished to have hit that before the deadline, not much before it, but
still… It's progress.
-
I have my schedule laid out for the next six months
with new releases coming near summer.
What have I learned:
-
I have learned that marketing is definitely my weak
spot. Which is good to know, it will be an area I really work hard on in this
next year.
-
Word of mouth can only get you so far, the rest is up
to you.
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Haters gonna hate, that doesn't mean you have to let
them drag you down to their level.
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Nothing beats the support of friends, family and fans.
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Love what you do and do what you love.
So that is my year in a nut shell. Next year will be happy,
exciting, and prosperous. <3
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Review: Special Assignment by Niki Becker
Special Assignment
By Niki Becker
Synopsis: Jake left Justice, Kansas shortly after the wreck. His life had been forever changed and he didn't know how he could stay in the one place that was a constant reminder of both women. Now on a quest to prove himself he taps into the one thing better left alone.
Charlie knew that eventually she’d have to run again. Resolution, California wouldn't be safe forever, someone would learn about her past. She just never imagined it would be the one person she’s spent a decade trying to forget.

Charlie and her brother Justin have made a new life in their beach side house on the banks of California. Justin stripping and Charlie hooking - neither wanted these jobs but they both paid the bills. Life was calm until trouble happened inside one seemingly friendly hotel.
Jake and Charlie, face to face with each other and their past.
Will they both overcome their shadows that haunt each of them?
Is there ever a way to forgive and forget when death is involved?
Special Assignment - The only thing special about this assignment are the two people involved.
Review: What can I say but wow? I'm a bit new to the world of Erotic Suspense, but I really feel like I hit the nail on the head with what I like to read in this genre and holy cow does Ms. Becker just steal me away with this book. I have to say that I think my favorite thing is that the characters aren't perfect. At all. A lot of times you find that either the guys is perfect (with a dash of a tortured past) or the woman has no real past and one of them ends up falling flat. That is not the case with Charlie and Jake! The two have a past together that they can't get rid of and it creates amazing chemistry between them. It gives a realistic aspect to the story.
The plot had me hooked right away. It's not often that you have someone killed within the first fifty words of a book. The twists and turns weren't predictable which I liked. I found myself reading a page here and there where I could and often forgetting that I was reading on my phone instead of my e-reader. I just got sucked in. The sex was amazing, there was a nice verity of it, which helped from keeping it repetitive. I highly recommend that if you like erotica and suspense, pick this book up!
I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
5 out of 5 Stars
Heat Rating: Scorching
(mild, medium, hot, spicy, scorching)
Buy It!
Add it on GoodReads
About the Author: Niki Becker is the pen name for Ashley Nemer.
Ashley is married and lives in Houston with her husband
Tony. They have two dogs named Toto and Doogie. They have been together for
almost 8 years and he brings her more joy than she could ever imagine as a
child. She loves to read and has been hooked on the romance genre ever since
her lifelong best friend Laura gave her "Ashes to Ashes' by Tami Hoag to
read when they were younger.
Ashley finds her strength through her family, especially her
parents. They always support her in life, they push her to strive for
greatness. There once was a motto that Ashley heard in her youth through her
Taekwondo life 'Reach for the Stars' and that is what Ashley has always done.
It was through her upbringing that the values Ashley has and display's came
from. With her Parents always cheering her on in life she was able to grow up
having faith in herself and her ability to conquer the world.
Wednesday, December 4, 2013
Pulling Through
So I went out and got a day job and let me tell you how much it's kicking my ass. Between my other personality and my edits for Black and White Desires I'm exhausted. Here's the deal though, no matter what I have to hit deadlines, self set or publisher set they are there. Yes some deadlines get moved because of shit that's uncontrollable. But that's not what's happening to me, nope, I have done this to myself. So what do I do when I'm so exhausted?
I do the unhealthy thing and down some energy drinks, work late into the night, and work whenever I can. I'm hoping some of it slows down after the first of the year, but I tell you what...next year looks like a wild ride too.
Mia and I will start our new adventure of cowriting a series together in hopes of getting our name more out there. Were most of our stuff leans towards Erotic, this will be paranormal romance and I can't wait to share it with you guys. No matter what life throws at us, we will pull through, together. I want to take a moment to thank those of you who have taken this journey with us. We are still learning and it continues as Mia's real work starts with marketing and I work through Black and White Desires.
Hope you all enjoy the ride. :D
Thursday, November 28, 2013
What's Next and Being Thankful
This was supposed to go up yesterday but what can I say,
I've been a bit out of sorts lately. For those of us in the States it is
Thanksgiving, a time to be thankful for what you have and sit around with loved
ones stuffing our faces with way too much food. I am so very thankful for all
of the support I've been given in the wake of some personal goings-on in my
life and for my friends who took time out of their days and nights to keep my
book release on schedule. I am equally thankful for everyone who has read
Waking Up In Bedlam.
So this year while everyone else is nodding off in a food
coma from too much turkey I am sitting on my couch reflecting on what this past
year has given me and what I hope to accomplish in the coming year.
This year has been rough, I won't lie, it has been down
right dirty. Between life and personal issues, to deadlines, to having a plan
and having to then rearrange everything because an amazing opportunity got
handed to us, to then having to cram for short deadlines, to this book release,
to my first experience with a publishing house and my first round of edits back
from them, to these holidays that are going to be a personal trail by fire for
me. But at the end of the day I am thankful for the fact that I am still
standing, not all of my deadlines got met but I didn't let the opportunity that
I wasn't expecting slip out of my hands either. I busted my ass on juggling
projects. Some days it was hard, other days it was easy. That's life. And I am thankful
for all of it. The ups and downs, dark clouds and silver linings, good days and
the bad.
And lastly I am grateful to the friends and readers who have
recommended my book to others. I really am still struggling with promotion and
marketing so the word of mouth from readers is great. Thank you.
What's next? Hell if I know. That's the truth. I have a
project with +Alexandra Webb, we should be wrapped up near the beginning of December
(I think). She'll start cracking the whip after Thanksgiving she said. I'm very
excited for this project and hopefully it will be the first of many. Next on
the list is finishing up a project that is called Steamworks, it was my NaNo
and life derailed and took that story with it. And I am slowly plugging away at
Waking Up In Chains, the sequel to Waking Up In Bedlam. I can't wait to get
that story out. The main characters are just starting to get a little chatty in
my brain so hopefully they will start shouting at me soon.
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